If you want to learn how a woman orgasms and the different ways to make her have incredible orgasms, then you’ll want to read this article. Specifically we’ll discuss the mindset you need to project when you’re having sex, different parts of the female body to stimulate and how to know if she really is having an orgasm or not. After reading this article, you should be able to know how a woman orgasms and how to give a woman wild screaming orgasms.


The mindset you’ll need is that you need to tease her a lot. You have to verbally tease her but also physically, this builds anticipation. For example, when you’re going down on her you don’t dive in directly, but you start at her knee and slowly work your way up to her vagina, where you first caress her lips and slowly circle her clitoral hood. Blow a little on the wet parts of her vagina. Make her go crazy, as crazy as possible, you want her to grab your head an pull you in. This will make her very hot.

Make her feel comfortable, relax her

Another thing you need to do is to tell her how much you love doing that which you are doing to her. If she feels you’re giving her cunnilingus just for her she won’t be able to relax as much. You just tell her that you love licking her so that she can relax into it.
Also, the orgasm is not the goal, it’s the way, once you can lead her into relaxing into the experience she’ll be able to experience really intense full body orgasms along the ride. It’ll be a wonderful experience for her.

Hotspots to have her orgasm

The parts to stimulate on a woman’s body from where she can climax are the clitoris, the G-spot and the deep spot. The clitoris is on the outside of her vagina on top under the clitoral hood. To stimulate her clitoris, make a circular motion over the clitoral hood. This is the most common way of masturbation for a woman and will very likely give her an orgasm. If you want some more little known approaches for the clitoris, check out the article about clitoral orgasms.


To stimulate the G-spot you’ll have to place one or two fingers in the vagina, the G-spot is on the front wall of the vagina, so when she’s laying on her back, your palm is facing upward. You go in to around the second knuckle and make a come here motion with your fingers. The G-spot is around the size of a nickle and when she’s aroused it’s a bit swollen. It also has a raspberry feel to it. For more information on how to stimulate her G-spot and make her have squirting orgasms check out the article about the G-spot and the squirting orgasms article.

Deep spot

To stimulate her deep spot you’ll have to put your middle finger all the way to the back of her vagina. Go all the way, as far as you can. There you’ll find a rim right before the beginning of the anterior fornix. The texture is really smooth over there. Make a pulling motion with the middle finger on the edge of the rim. The deep spot goes all the way around the anterior fornix. More info on the deep spot, with a short movie on where to find it, is found on the deep spot orgasm page.

How to know if she’s having an orgasm

Often you’ll know by the sounds she makes. But, if she’s holding back or something is blocking her in some way you can put the tip of your pinky inside her anus. Just a little in, not too far. When a woman is orgasming, her pc muscles clench. When she clenches her pc muscles she also clenches her anus a little bit. So when you feel her anus contracting you know she’s having an orgasm.

So, now you’ve read this article it’s time to get some real life experience and test this stuff out in the bedroom. I hope to see you back soon for the rest of the tips and tricks on this site. Check out the other articles and orgasm types as well.